Stepping Stones Stumbling Blocks

Saturday, June 30, 2007

Wishes

There are a very few girls (three to be precise) who I admire. Two of them have been mentioned in this post and they read my blog while the other one does not even know of the blog's existence. For the first time I would like to use the blog to wish one them on her birthday.

I have known her for six years now and I have no idea how we became friends. But today when I look back, I realise that she has been a significant part of my college life. I envy her practical thinking and analytical mind. And of course her ability to strike a balance between working hard and partying hard!!!

And you can read more about her here.

I hope she has a wonderful year.

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Strange are the ways....

Strange are the ways in which the mind works....

Strange are the ways in which a girl thinks....

Strange are the ways in which God acts....

Strange are the ways in which love plays havoc....

Strange are the ways in which friendship evolves....

Strange are the ways in which friends fall apart....

Strange are the ways in which joy intoxicates us....

Strange are the ways in which pain agonizes us....

Strange are the ways in which optimism keeps our hopes alive....

Strange are the ways in which pessimism causes despair....

Strange are the ways in which fantasies are realized....

Strange are the ways in which dreams are shattered....

Strange are the ways in which Blocks Stumble....

Strange are the ways in which Stepping Stones are contrived....

Strange are the ways in which we get discouraged....

Strange are the ways in which the heroine of this blog motivates....

Strange are the ways ..................

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Wandering mind

Predicting if its going to rain in Bangalore is quite tough. As tough as finding out if I am ever going to propose to a friend of mine. But the weather has turned out to be very pleasant in the last few days. It chilly, windy and yet there is no rain at all. And even if it does rain it is only going to cause havoc.


But what effect can such weather have on the already lazy Bangaloreans? It only makes them more lazy. And I am one of them. I have stopped getting up early in the morning to go jogging. I sleep more earlier than usual in the nights, thus taking full advantage of the weather.


And such conditions do bring in some happiness and some regret. I would rather be going on a long bike ride in the countryside than to my workplace. Maybe take a walk along a lake. With beautiful mountains towering on all four sides of the lake. With grey clouds hovering above. And a pleasant breeze thats titillates your senses. And to top it all, some hot chocolate fudge!!!


But all these are happy thoughts. Why the regret? Ah!! Do you think I would like to do all this alone? Do you think I want to go on my bike alone? So you think I want to walk along the lake alone? Do you think I want to enjoy the breeze alone? Dont you think I want to share my chocolate fudge with someone?


Such is the effect that the current weather in Bangalore has on young minds!!!!

Sunday, June 24, 2007

The week ahead....

Life in many ways is unpredictable. Its the unpredictability that keeps it going. But predicting whats going to happen in life is a science in itself. I will not term astrology as obscure or absurd since I do not know a lot about it. But if stars and planets are going to govern my life then so be it. Long live the stars!

Now I do glance through the star sign predictions once a week. Usually I forget what I read by the time I turn to the next page. And as usual I read whats written for virgo this weekend for the coming week. Recently a friend told me that I was a cusp - thats someone who is on the border of two star signs! Tough I dont like to be on the border I have started taking the liberty of peeking into the predictions of libra too to find out if the grass is greener on the other side. Then depending on which is better I could choose!!!

But this week I prefer to stick on to virgo - a lot better than libra! Lets see whats in store for me. The prediction read -

"You will have very fruitful week ahead. Love is in the air. You will spend quality time with your beloved. There are chances you might travel. You might end up getting a promotion. Some money will come your way. You might have a baby."

Ah now this is a week I would surely like to have!!! But lets see -

"Love is in the air" - Its been in the air for 14 months now. But its still only in the air!!!

"You will spend quality time with your beloved" - Now I have no idea how that is going to happen if I dont ask her out. Ok let me not get into a cribbing mood on monday morning, and my Heart and Brain are glaring at me!!!

"There are chances you might travel" - The only travel I am going to do is the 60km ride from home to office and back!!

"You might end up getting a promotion" - All I am expecting is the pink slip!!

"Some money will come your way" - Believe me, I dont know what to do with the money I already have!!!

"You might have a baby" - Ridiculous!!! I hear it takes nine months, a week is not sufficient. But let me ask my beloved anyway!!

And all I can predict for this week is that the blog is going to take a short nap. Major releases ahead. If I dont start looking into google to find out how to use a pointer (for the uninitiated a pointer is C jargon) I will soon end up writing predictions for star signs!!!

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Born Again

The 21st of June is in many ways a pretty significant date.

Its the Winter solstice - in layman's terms its the shortest day and the longest night of the year for the southern hemisphere and the opposite for the northern hemisphere. Is that going to mean that I am going to sleep less than what I usually do!!!

Its the date on which the Harry Potter and the order of the phoenix was released.

Its the FĂȘte de la Musique (World music day) in France, Belgium and Switzerland.

Its the World Humanist Day.

And its my birthday.


Please restrain yourself from picking up the mobile phone and wishing me. Its only for the government. So if the Rashtrapati of India (or the Rastra'patni' - yeah the term is catching up quickly) wants to find out when I was born and digs up the records he might find that it was on June 21st, 1983.

Though I was born in Madras on a totally different date, in a hospital quite close to the sea, and that being the same hospital where a friend of mine and a reader of the blog was also born, the official records state that I was born in some village in Karnataka!!! But today is the day I received birthday wishes from Hutch, from some groups I had registered to, from some websites, and of course today I will receive a chocolate hamper from my manager at work!!!

And there are some people who take undue advantage of this by asking for a treat, and thus getting a treat both today and on my actual birthday!!!

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Guest Post

Ok people its time for the first (and hopefully not the only one) guest post. It from a reader of my blog and a good friend of mine. He has rejoined orkut and can be found here. Though the post has a lot about me that I would not normally share, I have to stick by my promise on not editing anything thats written. And by the way I am also known by the name of Vinu. Its a name my parents, brother and all my relatives use. I sometimes wonder if they know my actual name.

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guest post huh!!!

lets write somethin about the time we spent together. A few more of your readers or atleast one more would be able to relate themselves to it. My first memory of that life,,,, i remember the great Rupam sitting cross-legged on his bed 'hugging' his pillow possibly to hide his tummy..anyways there was this group of people sitting round him in the room listening in rapped(or so it looked then) attention. i guess till then people had not known that the rupam bhattacharya was so great at brainwashing. Anyways, there was this guy as well, with glasses and all. Looked a geek. Looked more like a guy from high school whom another guy (God that guy was thin!!!) called as Vinu..for quite a long time i had thought a part of his official name was tht. And Vinu was telling the story of his homesick cubicle mate. After that not much memories of him for sometime. I mean he was in a different room and he was a pretty studious kind(not tht i wasnt) but then he didn speak crap then. He learnt it by and by through Rupam's greatness, or should i say he was already adept at it, just needed a trigger.

So this guy....he was not interested a lot in sports and stuff. Wasnt a member of the TT room with the broken table, the table which taught me the basics of the game. So anyways,,, he came out as a nice studious guy,, of course not very nice...pretty cunning i mean but not bad at heart and types...nyways it just took the first internals of the first sem to make us know the magic of Sriniketh S. Amazing proficiency in dealing with the thing known as studies and tht too engineering first year....He used to leave nothing to chance then...had a back up for everythin i guess...and there was rupam----he never studied and still outshone everyone..:-)...he was just a genius i guess....one of the few big hearted geniuses i have met...and definately not a snob..ofcourse even srini wasnt one..oh! sriniketh had become srini by now...:-)..srini had this amazing quality....he never said no when anyone asked him for help in studies..didn matter even if he was in a disasterous position himself,, which he normally wasnt..of course u cant consider the final yr..thn no one studies...then srini went on to follow the logic of optimum studying, somethin rupam used to always follow....anyways,, u d think i have nothin other to tell abt them than studies....

lets see how i felt abt srini..i always thought he was overtly defensive, very cunning but someone who d achieve greatness..sometimes i used to get irritated by the fact that i knew more electronics thn him and he got much more thn me..pure jealousy....he was just a thorough professional when it came to doin somethin although he never admitted i think..even now he ll say no...the outward appearance was tht of a guy just too casual and too lazy..he was lazy no doubt but he finished his job and thn got lazy...and ya!! he used to go to the loo with his watch on!!!!... i never got tht....

but thn i must say he has the best hearts among all tamilians i have seen, no offence meant. he s a really good guy with quite a lot of brains, hence less of hair...and brains he uses wisely..and by the powers of the universe, he can fool you outright with his talking...and am sure he ll get through IIM this time coz he has his mind really set on it now...

another facet of him i never till the episode with one of his school friends was tht he was a very sensible advisor..on any matter and specially on matters regarding affection..i used to think he was too practical..but thn he used to be practical coz he didn have nythin to be emotional on..he can be emotional as well...although hard to see..

and he has an amazing tennis service...

Satyakam

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pS : I need to really thank Satyakam for a pretty nice testimonial, and I feel pretty embarassed putting up such a post. Modesty is down the drains!

Handbook for effective time management

The views expressed below are entirely mine with some inputs from a time management workshop that I attended last year. I would like to state that in the time of a crisis at work, no time management stuff has to come in. Its the work that gets the highest priority and there will be no compromise then. Also if the amount of experience that you have is less than 2 years then I would suggest that you slog in the office rather than leave after 8 hours!! Create the right impression first!!

But when you have settled down in your job, created the right impression then its time to bring in some balance.

The steps to effective time management :

Pre-requisites

1. Understand that you have 24 hours in a day. If 8 hours is for sleeping, 8 is for work, then there are 8 more and thats a lot.
2. Understand the importance of achieving a balance among the various activities that make up the 24 hours.

Worklife:

The basis for all the following points is that there is a clear restriction on the number of hours that are spent in work. If its eight then its not more. Sometimes there is a clear mechanism in place that automatically ensures that the number of hours is restricted. For eg if you use the company transport then the timings are automatically fixed. Or you might have to pick up your kid from school at 6. Now this is an activity that you cant postpone. So its a motivator to leave at 6.

But when no such restrictor exists then its all upto the self control that an individual has. If eight hours are up then you should not work anymore. And the amount of self control is a pretty subjective thing.

Tip : I would suggest that you create a restrictor of your own. It should be an event strong enough to make you stop your work. Maybe its some tv show that you cant miss (but I wouldnt suggest you to adopt this one!), maybe you have to go home and help your mom in cooking and this cant be missed at any cost. Well I cant think of any at present but will try to come up with some strong restrictors.

How to make the best use of the available eight hours -

1. Remember that its not actually eight. Its a lot less. So the planning should have a buffer. The avg value is 20% of your time. But depending on the nature of work and the uncertainities involved set the buffer at a convinient level. This buffer is for unplanned activities.

2. For the six hours that remain - maintain a planner. Please remember that its not just any piece of paper thats lying around or some receipt or some ATM slip. Please maintain a book.

3. Fill in the planner with activities, priorities and deadlines. Take only 15 mins of your time to do this and let this be the first activity of your day rather than checking forwards from friends.

4. The major roadblocks to effective time management are time robbers. Let me list them down :
a. Poor planning
b. Meetings
c. Failure to listen
d. Waiting for answers
e. Socialising
f. Interruptions
g. Shifting priorities
h. Poor communication
i. Procrastination
j. Unwilling to say NO
k. Red Tape

5. Most of the above are self explanatory, so let us look at some ways to tackle the most common one : Understanding and controlling interruptions :
- Types of interruptions : Unnecessary, Necessary but untimely, Necessary and timely
- 2 keys to handling interruptions : Shorten the time interrupted by interrupting the interrupter quickly early on in the conversation. Deflect timing from interrupter's convenience to yours.
- Use questions like "What can I do for you?" , "How can I help you?" and ask questions with respect to timing - "When do you want it?"
- Use your planner and answers to the questions above to put the task down on the appropriate date.
- Make the other person feel good while ensuring that your time is not wasted.

6. Time management tips - office
a. Keep your current work as close to you as possible
b. Finish every job that comes to your desk - don't simply start, finish it.
c. Block unwarranted email addresses/unsubscribe yourself from lists that do not add any value to you
d. Arrive 10-15 min before any appointment
e. Identify your best time and plan most difficult/important tasks at that time
f. Budget for time on surfing on the net
g. Be careful of socialising in the office. You can lose as much as 1 hour each day.
h. Be careful of coffee/tea breaks - plan for them.

Now people, all the things I have said above may sound like things that are obvious but believe me, unless practised with vigour the fruits will always elude you. Today at a young age in a competetive world there is always a tendency to over strain ourselves so that we can reach the pinnacle of our careers as quickly as possible. We believe that by working late (I wont necessarily say working hard) we can create a good impression on our superiors but in the long run we unknowingly sacrifice a lot by tilting the balance away from our personal life.

pS : I would like to acknowledge the insights provided by a friend of mine on Her worklife that helped me understand the gamut of problems in our worklives.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Jogging all the way

Its official. I have started exercising. Yes people, I have now done it continuously for 3 days!!! I thought I wont brag about this on the first day itself since it could be a one day event. But its now 3 days.

Of course the source of inspiration has been all my 3 roomates who have been exercising daily for many years now. Though I am very happy with the progress I have suddenly realised the number of bones, muscles and joints I actually have. Some joints which I never knew existed are in pain and a lot of muscles are cramped. And the jogging is accompanied with some exercises too so that I dont get the tummy which I havent got yet.

I can now eat ice creams without feeling guilty.

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Goed tot ziens

I usually never feel sad. The sense of loss is usually non existent. But there have been occassions when I have felt that a good thing has come to an end. And I have felt a pang of sadness at these times.

I started working in close connection with the Dutch in August last year. It started off with some mails being exchanged and then we started having teleconferences daily. It took me at least 10 such calls to start understanding their accent. In the initial days there were always some other collegues of mine in the conference and I could always ask them what the Dutch guys (and there were some Belgians and French too!) were telling. Soon I was able to comprehend their accent and started feeling comfortable. I lost the initial nervousness but I always had the feeling that I am talking to people I have never actually met.

In september I got the chance to visit the Netherlands for the first time. I had been to Singapore and Malaysia, so it was not my first trip abraod. But then Europe is unique and fascinating in its own ways. I met the people I used to speak to only over the phone for the first time. This was my first interaction with foreigners and I immediately realised that I have a lot to learn from these people.

The trip lasted for 3 weeks. I had my 23rd birthday in the Netherlands. I returned back carrying memories and the knowledge I gained in those 3 weeks was more than what I had gained in 3 years.

My interaction with the Dutch continued after coming and became more frequent. Little did I know that a month and a half later I would be in the Netherlands again. And this time again for a month. And then again a month later I would visit the same place again!!

But then during all these interactions I learnt a lot. The Dutch work for eight hours a day and not more. Even the shop keepers work for 8 hours a day and no more. So the shops close by 6 in the evening. My Dutch collegues leave at 5 in the evening. They eat lunch at their work place and do not waste time going to the cafeteria. They dont spend time gossiping, having coffee every half an hour. Their meetings are short and to the point. Their ability to remain calm even during a crisis is really commendable. Even though we worked together in a high pressure environment I never saw them press the panic button. Whatever be the pressure they stuck to their timings. During my 3 trips I never saw even one Dutch collegue use his mobile phone. In fact I still wonder if they ever carried one!!

Their planning, focus and execution is something I was amazed with. The amount of confidence that they show on you and the respect that they have for your views is overwhelming. One thing that has kept me perplexed is the fact that my efficiency almost doubles automatically when I work there. This is not just my observation but also the feeling that a lot of my other fellow Indian collegues have. I have been trying hard to maintain the same efficiency after coming back but struggling.

Now the time has come to bid adieu. Officially today is the last day I will interact with the Dutch on this project. Today is the last teleconference. Though I do act as a consultant in my area of expertise, the active participation in the project comes to an end. This has been a pretty significant period in my life. Along with the chance to visit eight countries, visiting the Red Light District in Amsterdam (only visiting), seeing my chip in a product, improving in my area of expertise, I have now learnt from a people of a totally different culture.

But do you know the worst part of all this. I had a PC of my own in the Netherlands which I used to access using remote desktop. That will be taken away. I can no longer access Orkut or any of the messengers. I dont know how many of my buddies will be thanking their stars since I cant chat with them anymore.

It good bye to a lot of things this week...........

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Super Star

I am not a crazy fan of movies or movie stars. But I do have my favourites. Favourite actresses are many in number- none for their acting!!! But actors? Well there is only one. And its not Shah Rukh, or AB (Neither the senior nor the junior) - its our very own Super Star Rajnikanth.

It could be because of the tamilian blood running in me or it could be because of the silly but effective gimmicks that he does with his goggles, his shoes, his cigarettes (smoking is injurious to health), coins, his towel (well I had to use the word towel since I couldnt think of any word in English for the while cloth that guys put on their shoulders). It could be the punch dialogues that have become pretty famous in the tamil world. But I really have never understood why he is my favourite. I have watched his movies like basha, muthu, arunachalam and padayappa around 15 times.

Now his next movie is slated for release tomorrow. I dont care if its a hit or a flop. I am not going to pray for it, or pierce my toungue for it. But I will surely try to watch it. After all the The Boss is back.

Monday, June 11, 2007

Crossing the bridge

As much as Ponds Age miracle can try to make us look younger, nobody is getting any younger. The wrinkles, the hairfall and the diabetes is inevitable. But Its not the physical aging I am looking at. There are instances in a person's life when he/she feels that they have crossed a landmark with respect to age.

For some people it could be the well defined ages of 13 and 19 that gives them the feeling that they have been a teenager and then no longer are. For some it could be the important events in life like joining college, getting into the first job, getting married, becoming a parent....which define the crossing points in ages. I was wondering if I have ever felt that I have grown old.

I think the first time I felt that I was entering a new age group was when I joined college. It could be because that was the first time I was going to stay away from home. It could be because that was the first time I was getting my own wallet. Though the money would come from my parents! Maybe its because its the first time I had no restrictions in life. I could get up when I want, sleep when I want, not sleep at all, party if I wanted to, get a girl friend if I wanted to, choose my electives, choose not to attend classes. That was when I crossed the bridge to become a teenager. You could ask - What teenager? you were 18 then!! Yes, thats when I became a teenager.

Then I started earning. Was that the second time I crossed the bridge. I dont think so. I enjoyed the luxury of being the youngest at my work place. All my collegues were at least 2 years older to me. Many were aunties and uncles. But I still remained a guy who was still in his college mood.

Then for the first time last week I felt that I have reached the point where I am no longer a teenager. I had been to Pizza Hut last week with my cab-mates. Most of the others were much older than me. Many had come with their spouses and kids. I had neven been in the company of such people before. I felt that I am no longer the college going kid. Though it is a different thing that since I was the youngest they actually said to the Pizza hut people that it was my birthday and I had to go through the embarassing act of standing on a chair and listening to Happy Birthday being sung!!!

I think I am no longer a teenager. Maybe I should stock some of the Ponds Age Miracle creams. Is that only for females or can guys use it too???

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Late at night

There are times when a judgement is passed without due consideration of all the facts. There are times when I arrive at conclusions without looking at the matter in various possible perspectives. Have an opinion but never pass a judgement. That is exactly what I learnt over the weekend. This time it was more interesting than the last one where I spent time loafing in a park. This time the place turned out to be an ice-cream parlour (It used to be a Corner House, but no longer is) pretty close to the park.

Four of us met up at the ice cream place. This time there was a girl in the group. This girl was different in many ways from the girls who used to join us. She was constantly looking at her watch. Now there are only two reasons why any girl would do that. She is either bored and just wants the time to pass quickly or is having commitments and needs to keep them. When I saw her call up her parents to let them know the time by which she would be home I realised that it was the second reason.

But I did get an opportunity to strike up a conversation with her.

Me : So is it that you are usually home by nine due to compulsion or is it your own choice.

Her : It is of course my own choice. And my parents expect me to be at home by the time its dark

At that point in time I felt that it was weird, but then didnt think a lot about it. Though I did mention to her that She was pretty different from the other girls I knew. She just smiled!!

But when I went back home and thought a bit about it I felt what an idiot I have been. Let us consider that I have a daughter. What would I expect out of her. Would I not tell her to be at home before its dark. Would I not instill into her the importance of keeping her parents informed about her whereabouts. Along with incorporating all the modern thoughts and ideas required by today's girls, would I not encourage her to stick to the values and principles that any person is expected to adhere to. Would I not help her to cultivate the right habits - habits, we already know define who we are!!

And this girl was exactly doing that!! Along with incorporating modern thoughts and styles She has kept her core values and discipline intact. I think she can enter the list of sundar, susheel and gharelu ladki!!!

pS:

Inner conscience : So you have reached Cloud number Nine now

Heart : Figuratively and numerically.

Inner conscience : But you let Her pay for the ice-cream? What were you people thinking?

Brain : I was not thinking.

Heart : Ah, the ironies in life befuddle me at times!!!

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

And then there is work....

These days I work for exactly eight hours. When I had mentioned this to a friend of mine recently, I was asked

"But you do complete your work in eight hours right?"

And that has proved to be the biggest challenge this week so far. For the first time after I started my "eight hours only" work schedule I have landed in a situation where I am having to utilise my eight hours with extreme caution and planning to bring the best out of it.

Every minute of these eight hours is being accounted for. I am not able to refresh the stupid orkut page fifty times a day as I used to (though I hate Orkut, I refresh it for one reason only), I am having to write blogs from home that too at unearthly hours like 7 AM. I am not getting the time to do some timepass browsing on the net. Lunch has been cut to ten minutes. And most importantly I have not been able to chat with a friend of mine.

But then for the first time I am realising the importance of efficient planning. I do have the flexibility of increasing the work time by another two hours, but I have decided not to give up so quickly and stick with the eight hour schedule.

If time is ruthless I am going to be unrelenting!

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Wishlist

I want to visit as many countries as possible. The count stands at 11 at present. But I would like to do this with my wife!

I wish I would get the opportunity to sing a nursery rhyme in front of a crowd of unknown people.

I wish I could write a book one day and get it published.

I wish I could get a job where all I do is travel and meet people.

I wish I could propose to Her in Innsbruck, Austria.

I wish I could go on a trek in the Himalayas, the Alps and the Andes.

I wish I could dance.

I wish I could have a bowling alley in my house.

I wish I could make my wishes come true.

Sunday, June 03, 2007

On a park bench

It was a hot saturday afternoon and I was in Jayanagar. My roommate (RM) and me had 45 minutes to kill. I was waiting at a signal when my RM noticed a park beside the road. He suggested that we spend the free time in the park rather than riding in the heat. I could think of nothing better.

We entered the park and looked around. There was one empty bench right at the entrance and we settled down on it. I tried to digest the surroundings. There were a lot of trees and benches arranged pretty haphazardly. There were lots of boulders everywhere. I looked at the bench right in front of me. There was a guy sitting on it completely engrossed in some number crunching activity. He had a lot of receipts and a calculator to help him. He did not look up when we came in.

On the bench to my right was a guy taking a nap. I first thought he was speaking on a mobile phone but then realised that it was just his hand over his ear. Maybe the clamness that was in the park was not sufficient. Just beside him was a guy sitting on the ground using a boulder for support. He had a book in his hand. Everytime he turned a page he would close his eyes for sometime. I could figure out if he was memorising something or just that every page put him to sleep.

On a bench right accross ours was a couple. They must have been in their mid thirties. The guy was talking animatedly and the lady just listening. My RM and me stared at them

RM : What is a couple doing in a park on a hot saturday afternoon? Do they have nothing better to do?

Me : I really cant say. But maybe when we get married we might realise the importance of spending quality time with our spouses!!

RM : I would rather be spending the afternoon sleeping than on a park bench.

Then entered a young couple. The guy ang gal were holding hands as they entered. The number crunching guy looked up but immediately went back to his numbers. The guy taking a nap didnt notice them. The guy who was pretending to study was glad to see a change in the environment. The guy was extremely thin and had long hair - something my mom would not have approved of. The gal was a bit on the plumpy side. RM and me just stared

RM : Look at that guy's hair.

Me : Hmmm....

RM : I cant understand today's youth. why do they have to grow their hair that long!

Me : Hmmm....

RM : Sometimes I feel that guys nowadays want to look like girls!!!

Me : Hmmm....The world is changing

The couple looked around for a bench and then not finding one, settled down on some boulders. They held hands for sometime but did nothing further. The guy who pretending to study went back to pretending. The number crunching guy went back to his numbers. I turned my attention to the guy who just entered the park in a hurry. Who would enter a park in a hurry? My curiosity piqued. As I wondered, they guy in a hurry just went to a corner of the park and started urinating.

Me : So thats why he was in a hurry!

RM : The world might be changing, but Indians will be the same!

Me : Hmm.....

Meanwhile the couple in the 30's got up from the bench. We stared at them. They started walking towards the entrance (also the exit!) It could have been the distance that they maintained or the formal tone in theit talk that just changed our perspective

RM : Do you really think they are married?

Me : Now I have some doubts. It looks like they are just friends

RM : Hmm...I feel they are having an affair

Me : Nah...I dont think so. They are colleagues and also good friends.

RM : Havent you heard of office romance

Me : Hmm....

We stood up to leave. I took a last look at the park. The young couple had settled down on the bench occupied by the 30's couple. The number crunching guy continued to crunch numbers. The guy taking a nap was now talking on his mobile phone. The guy pretending to study was now talking a nap. We walked towards the exit and in came another young couple. The gal had a bouquet of roses in her hands and had her other arm accross the guy's hips. RM and me looked at each other.

Nah, we couldnt stay on, our 45 minutes were up.