What women want
Coming to next two questions that I asked, the answers that I received are as follows :
What is it that girls notice about guys?
- First thing that girls’ notice is looks and dressing. And it’s not at all shallow. Just think. There’s a sea of men. From the outside you can’t make out if they are sweet, intelligent, God fearing etc. So looks, style and dressing are the only things that will help a guy stand out, but only initially. If a guy looks good but talks like a moron, then no girl’s going to bother with him. The smart guy whose not all that dashing might have a tough time coming into picture, but in the long run, he’s a better chance of being liked by a girl. Once they’ve noticed a guy and have started talking to him, girls notice everything from the way they talk to what they talk. Whether he’s funny or not. And whether he’s honest and kind. Honesty and Kindness, huge factors. With ALL girls. Even the way they eat. In the long run things like his education, his future possibilities, his family and his friends also come into picture.
- I notice if the guy is smart, if he talks well, if he dresses well. I also notice if he is talented in something, it may be art, music or simply the way the guy talks. Also I generally notice or observe if the guy is intelligent.
What are the parameters on which a girl judges a guy?
- Most girls judge based on a similar set of qualities, but the priority varies quiet a bit. The usual parameters are: Looks, dressing, conversation, Humor, Intelligence, Manners (How he eats, talks, behaves), Character (honesty, kindness, blah blah), Education, Future prospects and his family background. For me the order is something like this:
1.Education, Future prospects, Current Job, Intelligence
2. Character, Family background,
3. Manners, Humor, Conversation
4. Looks, dressing
- For me a guy need not be handsome to like him. But I really really like a guy if he is intelligent. But this is only the first step. Also if I feel the guy is flirts a lot then its BIG NO NO to him. I generally don’t like guys who keep flirting with girls. This might seem like a silly/strange point, but for me the guy should speak good English. If he speaks broken or grammatically wrong English then I generally will not like him. After this I like a guy mainly by just observing him, if he has some good talent like singing, or getting good marks in exams, or smart enough in doing his job, then I think that he’s a nice guy. One more point is that the guy should have a nice body. Nice body in the sense not upto the level of Salman khan n all, but at least a proportional body. Also I like guys who hav a good sense of humor.
- 1.Attitude.
2. Confidence level.
3. Overall outlook of a person.
4. Whether he is honest or not.
5. His perspective towards life.
It looks like tall, dark and handsome still rules over a lot of other factors. But things like eating habits is something I don’t understand. Its not as if we spill food all over us!!!
Hmm and what is this about honesty that two of them have mentioned? It looks as if girls feel that guys are more prone to cheating. Maybe that’s true. But I guess girls always have that element of suspicion on the guys. What the hell are they bothered about. Even if the guy is in a relationship with a girl he will surely look at other beautiful girls. He will picture them in various ways. All the guy needs to remember is that he needs to be subtle about this and remind his girlfriend that she is the most beautiful girl on earth (“most beautiful girl on earth” – I don’t know what the phrase will be when we discover beautiful girls on a different planet). But honesty is something that ranks high on girls list. Ok what can I do about that. Honesty is still the best policy I guess!!!
PS : Answers to the other questions in another post
What is it that girls notice about guys?
- First thing that girls’ notice is looks and dressing. And it’s not at all shallow. Just think. There’s a sea of men. From the outside you can’t make out if they are sweet, intelligent, God fearing etc. So looks, style and dressing are the only things that will help a guy stand out, but only initially. If a guy looks good but talks like a moron, then no girl’s going to bother with him. The smart guy whose not all that dashing might have a tough time coming into picture, but in the long run, he’s a better chance of being liked by a girl. Once they’ve noticed a guy and have started talking to him, girls notice everything from the way they talk to what they talk. Whether he’s funny or not. And whether he’s honest and kind. Honesty and Kindness, huge factors. With ALL girls. Even the way they eat. In the long run things like his education, his future possibilities, his family and his friends also come into picture.
- I notice if the guy is smart, if he talks well, if he dresses well. I also notice if he is talented in something, it may be art, music or simply the way the guy talks. Also I generally notice or observe if the guy is intelligent.
What are the parameters on which a girl judges a guy?
- Most girls judge based on a similar set of qualities, but the priority varies quiet a bit. The usual parameters are: Looks, dressing, conversation, Humor, Intelligence, Manners (How he eats, talks, behaves), Character (honesty, kindness, blah blah), Education, Future prospects and his family background. For me the order is something like this:
1.Education, Future prospects, Current Job, Intelligence
2. Character, Family background,
3. Manners, Humor, Conversation
4. Looks, dressing
- For me a guy need not be handsome to like him. But I really really like a guy if he is intelligent. But this is only the first step. Also if I feel the guy is flirts a lot then its BIG NO NO to him. I generally don’t like guys who keep flirting with girls. This might seem like a silly/strange point, but for me the guy should speak good English. If he speaks broken or grammatically wrong English then I generally will not like him. After this I like a guy mainly by just observing him, if he has some good talent like singing, or getting good marks in exams, or smart enough in doing his job, then I think that he’s a nice guy. One more point is that the guy should have a nice body. Nice body in the sense not upto the level of Salman khan n all, but at least a proportional body. Also I like guys who hav a good sense of humor.
- 1.Attitude.
2. Confidence level.
3. Overall outlook of a person.
4. Whether he is honest or not.
5. His perspective towards life.
It looks like tall, dark and handsome still rules over a lot of other factors. But things like eating habits is something I don’t understand. Its not as if we spill food all over us!!!
Hmm and what is this about honesty that two of them have mentioned? It looks as if girls feel that guys are more prone to cheating. Maybe that’s true. But I guess girls always have that element of suspicion on the guys. What the hell are they bothered about. Even if the guy is in a relationship with a girl he will surely look at other beautiful girls. He will picture them in various ways. All the guy needs to remember is that he needs to be subtle about this and remind his girlfriend that she is the most beautiful girl on earth (“most beautiful girl on earth” – I don’t know what the phrase will be when we discover beautiful girls on a different planet). But honesty is something that ranks high on girls list. Ok what can I do about that. Honesty is still the best policy I guess!!!
PS : Answers to the other questions in another post
posted by Sriniketh S at
9:47 AM
2 Comments:
well...first thing is that I should never have used the phrase "judge a guy" in the first place. I think "forming an opinion" would have been more appropriate. Everyone is allowed to have an opinion on most matters and of course that includes gals forming an opinion on a guy.
When you look at it from this point of view then a girl is can of course have a opinion on a guy which might depend on factors like his talent in various fields. This is applicable to guys too.
Now these parameters would surely sound strange to guys as for them the looks/beauty of the girl tends to be a major factor when they try to "form an opinion" about her.
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Sriniketh S, at 8:49 AM
whoz givin all this "GYAN" chal??
--Akshat
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Anonymous, at 6:38 AM
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