Stepping Stones Stumbling Blocks

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Working hard.....

It has been quite some time since I blogged. And the reason is very simple. I seem to be very busy these days. In fact I worked for 45 hours last weekend, including friday. I even cancelled my holiday plans. I remember working like this when I joined the company. I am putting in nearly 13 hours everyday. And at times I ask myself - why am I doing this? And why am I doing this now? Well as one collegue aptly put it - For some people its work that gives the 'kick'! At least I dont depend on alcohol for it.

I dont even know why I wrote this post................

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

She and Her

PS : This post may sound very cryptic and stupid but I am sure who it is intended for will understand...

Though I should have been extremely depressed, strangely, I am not.

When I checked my mailbox this morning I was in for a shock. Someone had done what I had nearly decided not to do! But what had been done could not be undone.

I spoke to Her and as I thought She was extremely sportive about the whole thing. I would be lying if I said I had no feelings for Her, but after all not everything is supposed to work the way you want it to. I hope things dont change between us.

I did get one piece of advice - "Dont think too much about it" - I am going to try to adhere to that!!

By the way now She knows who the Her is in this blog!!!

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Out of the cocoon

Once again its the time of the year when I get rated. Yup...I am talking about the performance appraisal. And I have always looked at it as my final exam results but then the results is not based on a test held at the end of the year but rather on the overall performance all through the year. I have gone through the cycle 3 times till now and for the first time I think I got a rating that I expected. The rating that I would have given if asked to appraise myself on absolute scales, is exactly what I got this year.

I guess I have come a long way in my professional career. And I would be lying if I said I didnt enjoy it. I have discovered so many things about me along the way. Things that I never thought I was. I have discovered so many things about the dynamics of working with people. I have met different types of people. I have slowly understood what it means to be a part of an organization.

Over the years I have observed that I am one person who has always answered the following question positively - Do you like your job? One of the main aspects that helps in giving a positive answer is self motivation. As long as you dont fully depend on the organization to give you opportunities and provide support, motivation yourself becomes an easy job. In the first few years of you career it is imperative that you grab every single opportunity and try to excel in what you do. The first impression that you create is the one that holds a lot of value.

The first couple of years in you career are the best in many ways. Here the expectation from you is very low. You are allowed to commit mistakes. There is always someone covering-up for you. You are shielded from all the politics. And you are not held responsible for anything! A time like this is the best opportunity one can get. Always deliver the unexpected. Never commit mistakes. Take responsibility of you actions. Focus on quality. And you have created an impression.

One important thing always talked about is perception management. If you intend to stick to your organization for a long time then this is one important thing. Diligence always pays off. But it is smartness that adds that cherry to the pudding. Communicate every bit of work that you do. Never hide anything under the carpet. Along with being smart, show that you are smart. Try to always be in the win-win zone with your collegues and bosses. Ask the right questions and dont be scared to tell that you have done something wrong. And never come up with problems alone, come up with solutions too.

A senior person in the organization once told me - a person is best judged on the following parameters in the decreasing order of importance - "inherent attitude", "inherent ability", "competence". Attitude plays the most important role. This is something we realise only when we come out of our cocoon after a couple of years. The attitude of a person decides if he is an asset or a destructor to the organization. What people perceive you as decides the roles that you are going to play in the organization. And a leader always gives a lot of importance to this.

Complacency, stubborness, egotism and the likes can creep in if success always follows you. The tendency to think highly of oneself and to look upon others as lesser mortals can take over if not kept under check. These are the first signs of a inevitable fall in one's career. Humility should never be shed off. A leader always knows that standing alone he can never achieve his goals. He has to take his team along with him to the top.

I am coming out of the cocoon, lets see how well I am able to handle the surprises in store.

Sunday, March 09, 2008

Six seconds to........

The first second :

I looked into Her eyes. I had never understood how anyone's eyes could be beautiful. But now I know.

The second second :

I continued to look into Her eyes. I dont remember who between the two of was talking. I didnt ever care.

The third second :

My eyes were still locked into Her's. I had this strange feeling in me.

The fourth second :

She turned Her eyes away. But I continued to look at them.

The fifth second :

She was looking at something else. I was still looking at Her eyes.

The sixth second :

Something had hit me hard. I had decided......

Monday, March 03, 2008

Juno

There are some things that leave you speechless. Like maybe when u look at the girl you love! And believe me it happens everytime!! But there are some things that leave you thoughtless. Yeah it can happen. I watched this movie Juno and that was exactly the state I was in after the movie - thoughtless.

Usually I think twice before watching an Oscar nominated movie. But this time I didnt know that it had been nominated. It was 2 hours of bliss. A 16 year old girl gets pregnant. And instead of going for an abortion she actually delivers the baby after choosing a couple who are ready to adopt it. And in the course she figures out what she really wants.

Now such a topic for a movie is something that should have immediately led to many thoughts in my head and I would have started analysing the situation. But surprisingly I didnt have an opinion at the end of the movie. Its amazing screenplay and the songs held me captivated for the entire 2 hours. And the ending could not have been better. Everytime I think of the movie my mind goes blank. And I have watched it some 3 times in the last 4 days.......

I sometimes used to wonder if there will be atleast one thing about which I wont think too much and this movie is one that fits the bill. After all not thinking too much can be really soothing to the mind!!!